Love
Everybody loves to be Loved. Saying and showing you love your girl can overcome almost any parenting “mistakes” you might make.
Even they have disobeyed, angered, frustrated and rebelled against you, show them you love them and that you’ll always love them.
Purpose
A life of purpose that must be instilled by the Parents/Teachers/Guardians. It is easy for a girl child who knows what they are made for to thrive in this new age where there are endless opportunities.
Mentorship/ Positive Role Models
Parents/Mothers are their girls’ first and most important role models. Instill your values and teach children empathy by being the kind of person you want them to become.
Emotional support
Adolescent girls go through a lot personally
Parents’ words and actions should encourage kids’ trust, respect, self-esteem and, ultimately, independence.
Stability comes from family and community. Ideally, a family remains together in a stable household, but when that’s not possible, it’s important to disrupt the child’s life as little as possible. Girls and families should be a part of larger units to give them a sense of belonging, tradition and cultural continuity.
Consistency
No “good cop, bad cop.” Parents should synchronize their parenting and make sure important values stay consistent.
Security
A Girl Child must feel safe and sound, with their basic survival needs met: shelter, food, clothing, medical care and protection from harm.
She wants a sense of belonging, somewhere to be called HOME
Education
As a Parent/Guardian, It is Very Mandatory that you make sure your girl child get the best possible education for their future.
You may not be able to afford the best schools but information and education is a priceless legacy for a girl, the invaluable life lessons you provide during the time you spend together is also important
Structure
Rules, boundaries, and limits: Without them, Girls are forced to be adults before they are ready, and they lose respect for you and other adults.
Happiness
‘Whoever is Happy will make others HAPPY’
Happiness is also a form of courage; a girl who has courage able to face any circumstances that comes their way and thriving is a must.