So many people don’t even know they are the architect of their own predicaments, but they go about blaming others for every of their misfortunes thereby failing to seek solutions or answers to whatever it is they’re faced with.
Real men don’t shift blames, they accept responsibilities for every of their actions, they don’t let their own personal uses rub off on others.
Shifting blames does not change whatever that must have happened or that is happening, the first step towards putting an end to whatever that must have or that is happening is to first come into the consciousness of accepting responsibilities for it.
The moment you accept responsibility for whatever that is happening, your mind immediately switches to solution mode and that is when you’ll begin to by all means look for how to change whatever it is that is posing itself as a challenge before you.
Shifting blames is for children because they are immature to accept to take blames for themselves and even for others. Matured men (regardless of age) accept and take responsibilities for whatever that must have happened or that is happening.
Note: wherever you find yourself now is as a result of the decision you have consciously or unconsciously made, so don’t blame it on others because others will not be responsible for your solutions. It’s all in your hands to get the job done by first accepting it.